An old birthday song for my friend Alara:
Spotlight
I stand in your Spotlight
Arms raised high above my head
I’m careful not to step outside the circle
For a while
But then I do
Dancing in and out
Of the circle of light
Careful not to break the flow
But then I do
The lightness is ripped into pieces
I collapse
Half inside, half out
Of the circle
Of the spotlight
Unsure of my next step
I curl up
Turn my back to you
In protection
Feeling so vulnerable
Zitta – written on 11/12-2013
Playing Kids
I hear
The playing kids
My ear
Receives
The lack of fear
The unconcerned
The happy tear
I see
I see the game
We’re all the same
We all reach for the sky
Where we share
A cloud
And feel so high
And mighty
Zitta – written on 8/15-13
Hold My Hand
Richard
Hold my hand
As I envision
As I descend
Into that black hole
That empty space left behind by “us”
What used to be us
Hold my hand
With both of yours
Keep me safe as I touch
As I dare to touch
That deeper part of me
That part which may not let go
Once it takes hold
Must one lose oneself to become?
Zitta – written on 2/17-2013
A Heart Can Never Be Divided
A heart can never be divided
The fuller it is – the richer it gives
It is like a moving river
Always there is more
Having a source – the heart forever flows
Feeling so soft
Zitta – written on 2/12-2013
Response
I knew my heart was broken;
It was a tangible,
physical fact.
Then you said,
“A heart can never be divided.”
The broken heart cradled
In a sea of compassion
The sun rising.
Larry – written on 12/2-2016
Vision
I close my eyes and listen for the story. It wants to be told and emerges through me:
A few hours ago – my heart was open,
Open and unafraid.
Now it is closed
Protected by big wooden doors.
Through cracks in the doors an orange/red light speckled with white oozes out.
I slip through a crack and find myself in a spacious cave-like chamber.
I feel small but safe, the light being warm and comforting.
Ropes, spiraling wavy ropes, appear from somewhere up high in the smoke-like light.
I decide to climb one and quickly reach the top.
The view is sensational; open and embracing.
From my perch atop the rope I see people – little people, like dwarfs and goblins – squeezing through the cracks. They busily mill around, the dirt floor solid beneath their feet. They know their purpose and feel content.
An Elf climbs a rope near the one I occupy. He reaches for me. I feel it too intimate for us to touch and smile shyly. He graciously receives my smile, then climbs back down.
Below, the little people are getting together benches and a very long table. They set the table with bowls and spoons. On either side of the table they align two long troughs; these they proceed to fill with light blue sky.
The elf climbs back up, this time on MY rope. He gently pulls on my foot, suggesting that I get down and join in the festivities. I obey and he leads me to the head of the table, where I’m asked to be the queen and to sit in the queen’s chair. I feel awkward and tell them I do not wish to be the queen. Instead I initiate that we all stand up and hold hands.
A flood of goodness soars through me. It runs through my hands, then spreads to my heart – our hearts – where it comfortably settles.
I see a small bed off to one side, the bedding very white and clean.
I lie down. The bed is too small, so I stretch it pushing my arms and feet in opposite directions until it fits perfectly.
I feel tired, relaxed and peaceful. My work is done and done well.
Everyone leaves quietly through the cracks in the doors.
After a while, I get up and leave in the same manner.
Looking back on the old doors, I see the beautiful colored light shining through the many cracks and openings.
I spin around in jubilation, my arms high above my head.
I walk Home.
Zitta – written on 10/23-2008
Andrei – A True Story
Andrei, a 20 year old boy – as felt through the senses of the author – me.
I am Andrei.
I am invincible – almost.
My heart is soft – and must be protected.
Nature is safe and real – allowing the thoughts to flow.
My art has meaning – goes beyond words.
I live in the canyon, tucked away. Town is drawing me. It is Saturday.
Music – friends – maybe a little “pot” – a deep conversation.
Can we make the world a better place?
Can I?
Can I confine myself to the image this world portrays?
Mystery.
I dress warmly; a pack on my back with a change of clothes.
I have to cross the river – as I have many, many times before.
Tonight it flows fast and the rain is pouring.
I enjoy the elements of nature.
The wildness.
The freedom it gives.
I feel happy, uplifted.
I will defy the waters, the rush of the river.
I will pass – leave it behind.
Go to where I’m going.
Part way across it gets me. Takes over – shows me its strength.
I get pulled under – get stuck.
Oh shit.
I wasn’t meant to cross – not here – not now.
Frightened I call out …
We are alone – the river and I – in a battle of life and death.
I’m strong, I know I am – I used to beat Paavo in arm wrestling.
I fight. A good fight it is – for a while.
Time stands still.
The river shows its softness,
Cradles me in its arms. Calms me.
Tells me its story. Its story of eternity and of movement that is forever.
Slowly I give in. Pictures fill the space. Beautiful, peaceful pictures.
My body – numb – and no longer mine.
I move away. Stand aside. Look at my strong, young figure, – stuck.
I reach my mom – softly wrap myself around her heart. – She receives me.
My Dad, my siblings, my friends, I touch.
I dissipate into all-ness.
I am. – Somewhere I am.
Zitta – written on April 12th, 2005
My experience of the 2nd World War, at age 3:
The Big Boom
Denmark was occupied by Germany for 5 years during the Second World War.
The Scene:
March 21st, 1945, 11:16 a.m., Copenhagen. (For Denmark, the occupation will end 1½ months later.)
British bombers – 18 of them – were to destroy Gestapo Headquarters in Copenhagen.
35 Danish prisoners were held on the top floor of the building, probably as an “insurance policy” against bombing attacks.
En-route to Gestapo Headquarters, one of the first bombers falls into an air pocket, hits a radio tower and goes down.
The pilot in the following plane sees the smoke, thinks this is his target – and drops his bombs — ON MY SCHOOL !
I am 3 years old, very young for my class and very small for my age.
My Story (Monologue):
I sit at the stone table in the basement of my school, my new red lunch box in front of me. White cursive letters scrawled diagonally across the top. A word. My small fingers gently outline the strange, raised letters.
Shyly I look to my left. A little girl, scarcely a year older than me, looks back. She has long blond curls. My friend. She nods approval at my lunch box. My heart leaps! Neither of us knows the art of reading – let alone that of reading cursive. However, we both know the message the letters reveal: “Bon Appetite”.
My hands start to open the hinged lid to the treats my mother undoubtedly has hidden in the box.
!!! BOOM !!!
Loud noises. Voices screaming. Souls screaming. —
Darkness.
Blinded, I walk towards the light. Stumbling over crumbled bricks. Searching. My hands outstretched before me.
Caring hands. Big, caring hands – reaching for mine.
My feet – walking in very cold water. It rises as I walk, now reaching the bottom of my skirt.
Strong hands pick me up — up, up, away from the icy water.
Sitting on someone’s arm – safe – I burst into immediate, bubbling laughter. I lay my arms around his neck. Sigh.
Outside.
Bright light.
Chaos.
A mother – frantically searching in a pile of bricks. – I look away. She doesn’t fit my image of a mother.
Fathers – standing in a row, passing a child from hand to hand, like you would a bucket of water at a fire.
Then – passing the next.
Some children lay listlessly – some scream. Some are but a pair of very big eyes. Eyes which saw what no eyes should see … their friend, pulled under by the sewage water – or lying under a rafter – still.
Gently, I’m being set down by the curb of the street.
Different faces. Unknown faces. – All children. All much bigger than I.
As ambulances and taxis drive up to the curb, big hands – belonging to unknown, oddly clad men, are – it seems to me – “stuffing” the children into the cars.
For the first time in all this strangeness, do I feel scared! Real Scared!
An image pops into my head: What if these yellow men stuff ME into a car FIRST, then pile all of these BIG children on top of me?
My heart starts beating fast; my feet only want to run … my windpipe feels very restricted. – I SCREAM !
A girl – is she safe? – picks me up. Her eyes as scared as mine, she holds me tight; carries me with her into the next cab. Sits me on her lap.
I collapse. My head and back throb with pain. I didn’t notice it before. Now I cry – in the arms of a sweet young girl – who saved her own sanity by caring for me.
In the basement of a hospital someone tends to my head and back – gives me food, milk – shows me a toy box. I play with the toys, look at the other children. It seems as all the faces are but eyes.
I’m given a cot and asked to sleep. I can’t.
I wait. Then – wait some more. My waiting seems an eternity.
I get up, look at the toys again. There is a little blue wagon; its horses are brown. I pretend it is taking me home.
Someone walks up behind me. Gently touches my shoulder.
I turn around – quickly.
My Dad – tears streaming down his face – picks me up. Rocks me, loves me.
I’m safe. – And for the first time I speak:
“Dad, did you hear the big boom?”
“Yes”, he says, “Yes, I heard it”.
Epilogue:
Due to this fatal mistake, 109 people lost their lives. 93 of these were children – nearly ¼ of the children in the entire school.
Zitta Stubstad – written on October 31st, 2004
Hurt
I watch you
As you move around the house
I read the sorrow
Springing from every
Limb of yours
Your back is bent
Your shoulders stooped
Your palms empty and dry
Your walk
Slow and very heavy
Your eyes?
Confused
Searching
In despair
For trust
Turning down love
From fear
And hurt
Trying to understand
The heart
Forgetting the contradictions
The beauty
Not seeing
The fullness
Of life
I love you
But my love has no meaning to you
Not now
For you have decided
That my love is of no value
And as I send it to you
I see it hit you
Hit your invisible protection
Against me
Against my love
And it glances off
As water poured over a greasy surface
And it falls down
Around you
And you stand in a lake of love
And the love raises
Around your legs
Higher and higher
Till you – finally
Have to see it
Have to feel it
And life begins
Once more
Zitta – originally written 6/30 -1982
Here is something I wrote in college – forty-some years ago – and recently translated. It was my contribution to “Watching a movie – and discussing what we ‘got’ from it” . The war between Israel and Arabia. (Of course, this paper – as many of my papers – was “un-gradable”) … I never was a scholar.
I was selected to read it at “Peace Essays and Poetry, United Nations Peace Week,” at the Ojai Art Center on September 17, 2016.
Why? 1969
One cries over ones – due to war – dead husband
One mourns ones children’s frightened war eyes
Who cries for mankind?
Who cries for its cruel and evil ways – for its guilt?
If one human shows evil towards one human
We hate the first and protect the second
We take a position- we make a judgment
Humans protect humans
Against humans
Protection of one self against oneself
You are talking about a fraction of the entirety
As was it the whole
As if it had independence, as if it had importance, as if it had value – alone.
You demand that we take sides
You are mistaken
There is more
I cry over Mankind
Over you and over me
We are so terribly divided
So unbearably lonesome
Because the whole constantly divides itself – in front of our very eyes.
Zitta – originally written in 1969