Just thinking... In school, "Grades" can only be used for the norm (if such a thing exists). Norm (must mean?) "average" to be a useful word. Who is normal? No one, I think. Yesterday Marie turned 30. Tomorrow we will celebrate her (going to Dina's). I love her - I love them - I wish to be just that - love Maybe that is the norm? Can you grade Love? Zitta, January 2021